

Introduction
"Sin Lai is an experienced counsellor whose work is grounded in Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). While her primary area of focus is working with couples, she also works with individuals who may be navigating emotional, relational, or personal challenges.
In her work with couples, Sin Lai supports partners in understanding the emotional patterns that can leave them feeling disconnected, stuck, or caught in recurring cycles of conflict. She offers a warm, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where both partners can feel heard and understood. She guides couples in exploring the deeper emotions and attachment needs underlying their conflicts, helping them communicate more openly, respond to one another with greater empathy, and build greater safety, trust, and connection within their relationship.
With individual clients, Sin Lai provides a supportive space to explore emotional experiences, relationship patterns, attachment needs, and challenges that may be affecting their well-being and relationships. Drawing on her understanding of attachment and emotion, she works collaboratively with clients to develop greater emotional awareness, strengthen their understanding of themselves and their relational patterns, and explore more helpful ways of responding to difficult emotions and situations.
Across both individual and couples work, Sin Lai seeks to build a therapeutic relationship grounded in warmth, compassion, and respect. She works alongside clients at their own pace, supporting them in developing greater self-understanding, emotional security, and more fulfilling ways of relating to themselves and others."
In her work with couples, Sin Lai supports partners in understanding the emotional patterns that can leave them feeling disconnected, stuck, or caught in recurring cycles of conflict. She offers a warm, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where both partners can feel heard and understood. She guides couples in exploring the deeper emotions and attachment needs underlying their conflicts, helping them communicate more openly, respond to one another with greater empathy, and build greater safety, trust, and connection within their relationship.
With individual clients, Sin Lai provides a supportive space to explore emotional experiences, relationship patterns, attachment needs, and challenges that may be affecting their well-being and relationships. Drawing on her understanding of attachment and emotion, she works collaboratively with clients to develop greater emotional awareness, strengthen their understanding of themselves and their relational patterns, and explore more helpful ways of responding to difficult emotions and situations.
Across both individual and couples work, Sin Lai seeks to build a therapeutic relationship grounded in warmth, compassion, and respect. She works alongside clients at their own pace, supporting them in developing greater self-understanding, emotional security, and more fulfilling ways of relating to themselves and others."
Areas of Specialisation
Couples · Parent-Child Relationship · Infidelity · Communication · Conflict Management
Who I work with
Couples · Working Professionals · Parents
Modalities
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) · Attachment Theory
Professional Memberships & Affiliations
- Singapore Association for Counselling (SAC) Clinical Membership (C0683)
- Singapore Association for Counselling (SAC) Registered Counsellor
Trainings & Certifications
- Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (Externship)
- Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy Core Skills 1
- Gottman Method Couple Therapy Level 1
- Gottman Method Couple Therapy Level 2
- Prepare/Enrich certification
- Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (TJTA)
Past Work Experiences
- Couples experienced Infidelity
- Pre-marital counselling
- Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
- Depression
- Eating Disorder